What if it’s not you? It’s the food.
I’m learning why eating better felt so hard, and what happens when you remove ultra-processed foods from the equation.
This isn’t about willpower or perfection.
It’s about understanding how modern food is designed, and choosing something different, gently and realistically.


THE REALIZATION
I stopped blaming myself and started questioning the food.
For years, I did what we’re told to do.
I tried eating less. Tracking. Cutting carbs. Resetting every Monday.
Sometimes it worked.
Then life happened, habits returned, and the weight followed.
What finally clicked was this:
ultra-processed foods are engineered to override hunger and fullness.
When that’s your environment, struggling is a predictable outcome.
WHAT DITCHING UPFs MEANS HERE
It’s a shift, not a diet.
For me, ditching UPFs means:
- Learning how to recognize ultra-processed foods
- Focusing on real, simple ingredients most of the time
- Leaving room for life, flexibility, and sanity
- Paying attention to cravings, habits, and energy, not just weight
I’m not aiming for perfect eating. I’m aiming for food that doesn’t fight my biology.
WHY I’M SHARING THIS
Because I know I’m not the only one.
This space is for you if:
- You’ve “tried everything” and nothing stuck
- You feel fine eating well… until certain foods show up
- You’re tired of being told it’s just discipline
- You want to understand why change feels hard, not just be told to try harder
I’m not a nutritionist or a coach. I’m just some lady asking better questions and documenting what I’m learning as I go.

Follow the journey
I share reflections, things I’m learning about ultra-processed foods, and what changes as I simplify how I eat.
If that sounds helpful, you’re welcome to join.
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